
What is the significance of Pam in Ma Vie en Rose? "From what we see of her life, Pam also lives outside plotting. Of only a few minutes' duration, her show seems to involve no more than a survey of her colorful landscape, Ben's proposal, and her swooney acceptance... Pam presents only the glamour of femininity and the excitement of courtship itself."(Schiavi) Pam represents the female realm of hopes and desires... what little girls want to be when they grow up. In this way, she represents not only what Ludo dreams of becoming (a bride) but also what he is up against (gender roles). His will be a continual struggle of finding his own narrative within such a strong adversarial and widely accepted gender prototype. Girls want to grow up and get married (like Pam) and therefore so does Ludo.... but he is only mentally feminine and thus creates the shield of difference from societal prototypes.
What bigger issues does Pam's show display? "Woman, in this sexual imaginary, is only a more or less obliging prop for the enactment of man's fantasies. Than she may find pleasure in that role, by proxy, is possible, even certain. But such pleasure is above all a masochistic prostitution of her body to a desire that is not her own, and it leaves her in a familiar state of dependency upon man." (Irigaray) Pam's sexuality (large breasts) and desires (to get married) fall into place with what men desire. It is not just a representation of what women want but also an enactment of how feminine desires are really only a continuation of male desire transposed onto feminine ideal. "The beginnings of the sexual life of a girl child are so 'faded with time' that one would have to dig...beneath the traces of this civilization... the vestiges of a more archaic civilization that might give some clue to woman's sexuality." Irigaray even goes so far as to say that "extremely ancient civilization would undoubtedly have a different alphabet, a different language. . . Woman's desire would not be expected to tspeak the same language as man's." Pam's world though it is a supposed ideal for young girls (Ludo included) only representst their sexuality and identity only inasmuch as it fits within a male world.